Monday, October 10

Friendship is always a sweet responsibilty, never an opportunity.♡



What is a FRIEND/S?

1.  true friend: somebody emotionally close, somebody who trusts and is fond of another 
2.  acquaintance: somebody who thinks well of or is on good terms with somebody else 
3.  Ally: an ally, or somebody who is not an enemy.  


"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."

Firstly, let me tell you the importance of making friends briefly. According to Confucianism, ‘friends’ are one of the five important elements in interpersonal relationships. Friends give consolation, point out the mistakes you make and urge you to correct them. Friends are to be trusted and have the responsibility to ‘monitor’ each other. Friends are spread all over the world.
but what if your FRIENDS is just a SO CALLED FRIENDS? 
Let me share you my thoughts/feelings with regards to friends, It takes a very long time to grow an old friend. BUT, it's even harder if you have this old friend but she/he doesn't treat you right. They don't even give a DAMN in your life! Yes, some are like that but there are still these very few friends that you can have.


"The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own." 


I was just so HAPPY meeting and having a NEW FOUND FRIENDS. Maybe, old are better but i know that this NEW can be an OLD FRIEND and become an old better friend. Right? Yes, Exactly! I admit that i have a large number of friends. Oooh, what i mean is a HUGE CIRCLE OF FRIENDS. Since i was in my childhood, elementary, highschool, college, in my first work at hotel and being an SK Kagawad before. I've met different kinds of people. Literally :)
I am FRIENDLY. Yes! but not just being a "FRIENDLY" one. I am a REAL ONE.
Not everyone is kind-hearted, some are criminals and crooks, especially when we make friends on the net, and we need to be very careful since you don’t have a face-to-face contact with the other even though you have a web camera/pictures. 

"Every person is a new door to a different world."


But you know what? I made this one because i was enlightened by a new friends of mine. Yes they are two ;) See how lucky i am now? but before i introduce you to them. I want to share how HAPPY & LUCKY i am to have them as my friends. To begin with, I met them and get closed to them through facebook, they are my schoolmates in St. Paul University QC. Yes, i haven't met them yet and we never get a chance to get along with but i know in some other time, We will enjoy each other's company more.


"They are once a strangers but this two strangers are just friends waiting to happen." 

They are always there when i need someone to talk to, when i was looking for fun and happiness! They are always there to listen when i have problems and ofcourse, they never forget to put a BIG smile in my face but not INTENTIONALLY :) They are just great! :P


My Two UTOT friends (GF Toni & Auntie Yana)
TONI: "Wala yun, andito lang ako palage para sayo. :) Ok ka na ba GF? :* Wag mo na isipin yun ah"
YANA: "Siguro nga may purpose si God di ba bat tayo nagkakilala, diba uncle? Ayos ba? :) Kaya wag mo na masyado isipin yung mga bagay na hindi nagccause ng mabuting bagay sa 
iyo. :) Mag-focus ka dun sa kung saan ka sumasaya :) Our lives would be better pag ganun :)
Always wear a BIG SMILE, UNCLE! :D Wag na sad ha! I would never do that to you :) This friendship will be different, uncle! :) Wag ka ng sad ha? :) Love ka namin ni bebeWoody :)) :* SMILE! WE LOVE YOU! :)"




They said, ACTIONS IS BETTER THAN WORDS. Yes, that's just some of those typical words


but for me, I know that they really mean it and i can feel it. :P


KISSESSSS for both of you! :* :* :*




"Two may talk together under the same roof for many years, yet never really meet; and two others at first speech are old friends."


The FRIENDSHIP just started and i know that we still have FOREVER to prove that we are


connected and that we are friends now because of GOD'S WILL. Because they have BETTER


plans for me and i thank God for being so good to me. :)


"A Friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway" 


Lastly, there are two kinds of friends. One kind is called ‘true friends’ and another kind is called ‘acquaintances’. It is very difficult to find true friends who totally have no barrier between you and him/her. But, you can make acquaintances very easily. So, the best way to do is to ‘turn your foes into your acquaintance.’ An enemy is no good, so you can turn them to acquaintances by just saying hello and goodbye to them. In this way, you can keep them with certain distance but the relationship is not antagonistic. In the meantime, you should try hard to consolidate and enhance your relationship with your true friends. Treasure them! Value them! Don’t lie to them! In conclusion, it’s never difficult to make friends unless people become extinct. So, try your best to make good friends who are beneficial to you.

They are not my ACQUAINTANCES but they are my GOOD CLOSE FRIENDS.

Just be yourself when you are talking to them and when you are with them.. You know what? That's not the BEST thing but that's the BETTER thing that you can do to a friend. 

-rquiacosan13

1 comment:

  1. ang sweet naman ng girlfriend ko :"> kahit na new found friends mo lang kami, true friends kami :> di kita ilalagay sa alanganin at ilalaglag. di ka namin iiwan. basta dito lang kami palagi for you :* wag mo na lang intindihin yung iba, pag nasaktan ka na wag mo ng pagaksayahan pa ng panahon. wala silang maidudulot na maganda sayo :) di kawalan ang mga ganong klase ng tao. mas madami pang bagay at tao ang pwedeng bigyang importansya at panahon. :* basta always smile and be happy gf ah? :) BIG HUUUUUUG & KISSES >:D< :*:*:*

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