HOW L♥VE WORKS. :)

Hey, Im Fvcking baaaaccckk! ;) It's been awhile. I miss writing it all down. ;) Im in the perfect mood to right another blog, and YES, it is all about LOVE. Wanna' know why? Because right now, it's very confusing. :| SERIOUSLY.

.SAD.CLUELESS.CRAZY.DEPRESS.NUMB.ETC.ETC.ETC.

"It's totally mixed emotion. :("

To begin with, How do you define LOVE? 

What is Love? It is one of the most difficult question for the mankind.

A Love is something that everyone wants to feel, but it is a fact that only a little part of the people has the luck to feel it. Love is not about finding a right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you can build and time you can share together till the end. Love is based on trust and faith that you have in other person. Nothing left when trust break, but never get hurt so much for someone who would'nt appreciate your pain. Always remember that, pain makes people change. So, don't hurt them when you don't want them to change. :)


Firstly, how can we define love, or what-is-love? Love is a sensation through the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual senses. When music is playing, it stimulates your ears and moves your soul. When watching fireworks at night, it hypnotizes your eyes and inspires your spirit. Honestly, what is the feeling you get when an attractive stranger gives you a pleasant smile unexpectedly? Defining what-is-love has been the work of various types of artists throughout time. We all know love when we feel it. We all want to be loved. There is no denying it. Yet, it is still a mystery in many ways. It is a huge subject to explore. It is compassionate, romantic, generous, heart-felt, funny and heals all things. It can be expressed in numerous ways. To define what-is-love is difficult because we are not well educated about it in school from first grade to the first two years in college, compared to Math, for example. It can be a controversial and sensitive subject. The definition of love is still in its infancy. Hopefully, there will eventually be a large community of loveologists (scientists who specialize in love) that can define what-is-love and are able to offer important contributions to our world society.

Exactly what is this thing called love? Since it is a very broad term, the ancient Greeks managed to define what-is-love and there are four types: agape, eros, philia and storge.

• Agape is unconditional love with a deeper sense of "true love". Example: Giving others your precious resources for loving support without an expectation in return.
  
• Eros is passionate love. It is mostly sexual but can also be passion for anything, such as car hobbies.
  
• Philia is displaying love through loyalty to friends, family and community, usually by sharing resources and expecting something in return.
  
• Storge is natural affection that is often felt by a person for related family members.
  

Agape is considered the purest form of love. You can love almost anyone with agape. You need to learn to love yourself first, then it is easier to give to others with true love.

Now, what-is-love that is true and meaningful? How can you do something about it? :)

You can do something.

There are many definitions here that are based around an action, doing something. There are also many that focus on encouraging words or inspiring proverbs. Both of those may be true, but we believe complete, total love comes from a combination of both words and action. Stop and think for a few minutes, is there someone or something you can lend a helping hand to, or volunteer your time for? Something on the national, regional, local, or even personal level? We must come together, set aside any differences and express love to one another. Don’t worry about embarrassing or awkward situations. Give up your comfort for someone else to be healed.

Be total Love. ♥

Now, Go! Do something. :)

-rquiacosan13♔
(c) Google

Friendship is always a sweet responsibilty, never an opportunity.♡

What is a FRIEND/S?

1.  true friend: somebody emotionally close, somebody who trusts and is fond of another 
2.  acquaintance: somebody who thinks well of or is on good terms with somebody else 
3.  Ally: an ally, or somebody who is not an enemy.  

"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."

Firstly, let me tell you the importance of making friends briefly. According to Confucianism, ‘friends’ are one of the five important elements in interpersonal relationships. Friends give consolation, point out the mistakes you make and urge you to correct them. Friends are to be trusted and have the responsibility to ‘monitor’ each other. Friends are spread all over the world.
but what if your FRIENDS is just a SO CALLED FRIENDS? ☹
Let me share you my thoughts/feelings with regards to friends, It takes a very long time to grow an old friend. BUT, it's even harder if you have this old friend but she/he doesn't treat you right. They don't even give a DAMN in your life! Yes, some are like that but there are still these very few friends that you can have.

"The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own." 

I was just so HAPPY meeting and having a NEW FOUND FRIENDS. Maybe, old are better but i know that this NEW can be an OLD FRIEND and become an old better friend. Right? Yes, Exactly! I admit that i have a large number of friends. Oooh, what i mean is a HUGE CIRCLE OF FRIENDS. Since i was in my childhood, elementary, highschool, college, in my first work at hotel and being an SK Kagawad before. I've met different kinds of people. Literally :)
I am FRIENDLY. Yes! but not just being a "FRIENDLY" one. I am a REAL ONE.☺
Not everyone is kind-hearted, some are criminals and crooks, especially when we make friends on the net, and we need to be very careful since you don’t have a face-to-face contact with the other even though you have a web camera/pictures. 

"Every person is a new door to a different world."

But you know what? I made this one because i was enlightened by a new friends of mine. Yes they are two ;) See how lucky i am now? but before i introduce you to them. I want to share how HAPPY & LUCKY i am to have them as my friends. To begin with, I met them and get closed to them through facebook, they are my schoolmates in St. Paul University QC. Yes, i haven't met them yet and we never get a chance to get along with but i know in some other time, We will enjoy each other's company more.

"They are once a strangers but this two strangers are just friends waiting to happen." 

They are always there when i need someone to talk to, when i was looking for fun and happiness! They are always there to listen when i have problems and ofcourse, they never forget to put a BIG smile in my face but not INTENTIONALLY :) They are just great! :P

My Two UTOT friends (GF Toni & Auntie Yana♥)

TONI: "Wala yun, andito lang ako palage para sayo. :) Ok ka na ba GF? :* Wag mo na isipin yun ah"
YANA: "Siguro nga may purpose si God di ba bat tayo nagkakilala, diba uncle? Ayos ba? :) Kaya wag mo na masyado isipin yung mga bagay na hindi nagccause ng mabuting bagay sa 
iyo. :) Mag-focus ka dun sa kung saan ka sumasaya :) Our lives would be better pag ganun :)
Always wear a BIG SMILE, UNCLE! :D Wag na sad ha! I would never do that to you :) This friendship will be different, uncle! :) Wag ka ng sad ha? :) Love ka namin ni bebeWoody :)) :* SMILE! WE LOVE YOU! :)"




They said, ACTIONS IS BETTER THAN WORDS. Yes, that's just some of those typical words


but for me, I know that they really mean it and i can feel it. :P

KISSESSSS for both of you! :* :* :*

"Two may talk together under the same roof for many years, yet never really meet; and two others at first speech are old friends."

The FRIENDSHIP just started and i know that we still have FOREVER to prove that we are


connected and that we are friends now because of GOD'S WILL. Because they have BETTER


plans for me and i thank God for being so good to me. :)

"A Friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway" 

Lastly, there are two kinds of friends. One kind is called ‘true friends’ and another kind is called ‘acquaintances’. It is very difficult to find true friends who totally have no barrier between you and him/her. But, you can make acquaintances very easily. So, the best way to do is to ‘turn your foes into your acquaintance.’ An enemy is no good, so you can turn them to acquaintances by just saying hello and goodbye to them. In this way, you can keep them with certain distance but the relationship is not antagonistic. In the meantime, you should try hard to consolidate and enhance your relationship with your true friends. Treasure them! Value them! Don’t lie to them! In conclusion, it’s never difficult to make friends unless people become extinct. So, try your best to make good friends who are beneficial to you.

They are not my ACQUAINTANCES but they are my GOOD CLOSE FRIENDS.

Just be yourself when you are talking to them and when you are with them.. You know what? That's not the BEST thing but that's the BETTER thing that you can do to a friend. 

-rquiacosan13♔

Freedom of Speech ala Facebook ✌

FACEBOOK na ang nangungunang networking site na lumalamon sa mga tao ngayon. Ito rin 


ang pilit kinakaibigan ng ilan pang aspiring forms of social media. Pansinin mo, Yung mga 


bagong kumakaribal sa Facebook, maron feature kung saan magrereflect din sa FB account 


mo ang post mo gamit ang site nila. Kagaya nalang ng twitter, tumblr, etc..


Exercising our rights to freedom of speech daw ito. Pero lahat ba e post-worthy? O 


karamihan ay nagdadala lang ng badtrip sa kapwa nila gumagamit ng facenook? Isipin mo..

Freedom of speech pala ha. Ito ang post ko tungkol sa mga post ng iba. Guilty tayo dito. 


AMININ MO NA!


1. Iwasan ang pabigla – biglang pagpapalit ng relationship status. Lalo na kung mababaw lang 


ang dahilan tulad ng late reply sa text o hindi pag iloveyou sayo ang jowa mo kaninang alas 


tres (sarili nyong 3 o’clock habit). Dahil pag nagka-ayos kayo, at ibinalik mo sa dati ang 


status mo, ikaw din ang magmumukhang praning.



2. Walang masama kung purong tagalog ang shout out mo. Wag matakot na sabihan nang “uy 


makata”. Kesa naman panay nga ang english, sablay naman ang grammar at hindi kakikitaan 


ng sense ang sinabi. (iba ang you’re sa your).


3. Check in. Ang post kung saan sinasabi ang kasalukuyan mong lokasyon. Positibo. Pwedeng 


maging safety precaution. At least alam nila kung saan ka huling pumunta sakaling di ka 


mahagilap ng ilang araw. Negatibo. Easy prey ka sa mga serial killers o sa kaibigan na may 


galit sayo. (Ingat ka. HAHAHA)



4. May “about you” page ang FB. Dun mo isusulat ang mga hilig mo. Di mo na kelangan pang 


magpost ng magpost ng mga youtube videos nila Ozzy Osbourne, Metallica o Korn para 


ipagdiinan na rakista ka. Ikaw din, baka mahirapan kang panindigan. Lalo na pag tumugtog 


na ang paborito mong kanta ni Katy Perry. Napaindak at sing along si Utot.



5. Hindi kelangan magpost ng mga litrato o video nang iniembalsamo o bangkay na durog 


durog ang katawan at labas ang mga laman loob. Palit kaya kayo nung andun sa picture. Ako 


naman ang magpopost.


6. Magtira ng konting privacy para sa sarili. Hindi lahat ng bagay ay dapat ishare. Lalo na sa 


social media. Sarilinin mo nalang ang gusot sa pamilya o away mag asawa. Pribado na yon. 


Post ka ng post, tapos mababadtrip ka kung gagawing pulutan sa inuman ang kwento ng 


buhay mo.



7. Ok lang ipost ang mga bago mong gamit. Gaya ng mga gadget, damit o accessories. 


Natural lang maging proud ka lalo na kung pinaghirapan mo o importanteng tao ang nagbigay 


sayo nito. Di lang siguro tama na sabihing “hay nakakapagod na magshopping, andami ko 


kasi pinamili”.

8. Kung sakaling may nagpost ng malungkot o kaya’y tungkol sa isang masamang pangyayari 


sa kanila, wag mong i-like. Ano yun? Nagustuhan mo pa na sumemplang siya sa kanal? LOL

9. Wag mong i-like ang sarili mong post. Kaya nga pinost mo in the first place. Mas malala 


kung ikaw din ang magcocomment. Parang loner ka naman nun.


10. Wag kang basta basta magpost ng nakakagagong comment, lalo na sa mga picture kung 


saan may mga taong di mo kilala. Halimbawa: “Pre, sino yang kasama mo sa pic? si Bella 


Flores?”. Huli mo na nalaman. Girlfriend pala niya yun.


11. Kung sakaling may nagpost ng matino at informative na mensahe. Magpasalamat. Huwag 


mag angas sabay comment nang “ay luma na yan, huli kana sa balita” o kaya “wala, 


kalokohan lang yan”. Wag kang magmagaling. Matalino kaba na parang si Rizal? E di pabaril 


ka sa Luneta.


12. Wag gamitin ang FB para magpakalat ng maling impormasyon at maghatid ng mass 


hysteria. Pero kung sino man ang napost na aabot dito ang radiation sa japan. 


Nagpapasalamat sayo ang manufacturer ng Betadine.



13. Wag sumali at i-like ang isang fan page kung puro kagaguhan lang ang ipopost mo sa wall 


nito. Halimbawa, nagpamember ka sa page ng isang seksing artista tapos mag cocomment ka 


lang ng “uy, sarap mo naman, parang mainit na lugaw sa malamig sa madaling araw”. Tapos 


magtataka, “hala.. bakit ako na banned?”.


14. Hindi lang ikaw ang may gustong manood ng sine. Wag kang mag post ng mga spoilers na

maaaring ikabadtrip ng iba. “just watched Nardong Putik: Ang Pagbabalik Ni Totoy Burak, 


ganda ng ending, napatay nya ung kontra bida sa pamamagitan ng pagpukpok sa ulo ng isang 


palayok, pero sad dahil huli na nang malaman nya na tatay niya pala yun..”.


15. Di naman ata kelangan simulan ang post mo sa salitang “Damn!!” o kaya “Oh gosh” lalo 


na kung di naman malubha o kagulat gulat ang pangyayari. Halimbawa: “oh gosh, umuulan”. 


Ayy Bakeeet? Taga saudi??? Hahaha


16. Wag matawa at kantyawan kung corny o masyadong romantiko ang isang post. Tandaan 


mo, magmamahal ka din. Lintik lang ang walang ganti. Dami kong kilalang ganyan.


17. Ok lang siguro ipost kung ano at kung saan ka kumakain. Iwasan lang yung pagpopost ng 


close up pictures nung pagkain mismo. Marami ang nagpapalipas ng gutom sa pamamagitan 


ng Facebook. Sino ka para inggitin sila. Parang yung feeling na, asa air-con bus ka, pauwi sa 


bahay at gutom tapos may kumag na kakain ng burger at fries. Langhap mo ang bawat kagat 


niya. Di maka tao. Dapat palitan ang pangalan niya. Gawing Lucifer.


18. Ok lang siguro ang mag post sa paraang Jejemon. Trip mo yun e. Wag mo nga lang 


asahan na seseryosohin ka kahit matino ang gusto mong sabihin. Expect mo rin na lahat ng 


comment sayo e magtatapos sa “jejejeje”.


19. Wag magimbita sa isang okasyon gamit ang shout out mo, tapos may ita-tag ka lang na 


piling tao. Bangag kaba? Makikita ng lahat ng “friends” mo na iilan lang ang gusto mo 


papuntahin sa nasabing okasyon.


20. Pwede ba?? HINDI PORKET ALL CAPS E GALIT ANG NAGPOST. BAKA LUMUBOG AT 


NASTUCK LANG ANG CAPS LOCK.


21. Sapat naman na siguro ang tatlong exclamation point para ipaalam sa bumabasa na puno 


ng emosyon ang post mo. Di mo kelangan punuin ng punctuations porket walang bayad ang 


extra characters tulad ng sa text messaging. Halimbawa. Pakyu ka!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


!!!!!!!. Mali yun. Dapat, "Pakyu ka!!!" lang.


22. Iwasang magpost kung ikaw ay (a) lasing, (b) nasa impluwensya ng ipinagbabawal na 


gamot o (c) hindi tinirahan ng ulam. Walang gustong makabasa ng pag aamok mo na puno ng 


mali maling spelling. Kung sakaling nakakaramdam ng “FB rage”, magpahid ng menthol 


toothpaste sa mga palad, at itampal tampal sa mukha mo hanggang sa kumalma.



23. Oo, dapat sulitin ang unlimited surfing na maghapon mong binantayan para lang 


maregister. Pero di ibig sabihin nun na post lang ng post. Halimbawa, ang ilalagay mo sa 


shout out mo e tatlong magkakasunond na tuldok. Ano yun? Buti pa quote nalang. Time is 


gold.


24. Wag trigger happy sa “share” button. Hindi porket di nagappear sa profile page ang 


mabangis mong status message e kelangan mong tiktikin ang pagpindot. Antayin mo lang. 


Mamaya ilang beses na pala napost. Paulit ulit. Wag kang atat. Lalo na kung ang ipopost mo 


e “Patience is a virtue”.


25. Wag mong kakumpetensyahin ang youtube sa dami ng video na nakapost sa wall mo. OK 


lang siguro kung ishare mo ang isang nakakatawang clip kung saan may nag susurfing na pusa 


o kaya naman e makabuluhang excerpt ng isang documentary. Wag naman yung lahat ng mtv 


ng kantang marinig mo sa jeep o lahat ng episode ng wow mali.


26. Wag ipahamak ang sarili. Kung sakaling pwede naman palang acronym ang isang term e 


wag mo na itong buuhin sa iyong post, "Laughing out loud!!!!" (FIRST TIME MO?)


27. Hindi masamang makisali sa mga occasional drives o campaigns. Tulad ng paggamit ng 


picture ng nanay mo pag mother’s day o pag post ng mensahe tungkol sa cancer bilang status 


message mo. Hindi porket di ka nakisali e cool o mas sophisticated ka.


28. Kung may nagcomment o nagpost sa wall mo na di mo kilala ang pangalan pati na ang 


picture. I-open saglit ang profile. Wag mo agad replyan ng makamandag na “HU U?”. Malay 


mo, tropa mo pala yun. Binaliktad lang ang pangalan. O kaya naman e dinagdagan ng H. 


"Mhayhumhi Pharhedez"..


29. Kung magcocomment ka, halimbawa sa isang picture, iwasang gumamit ng 


paghahalintulad sa ibang tao lalo na kung kagaguhan lang ang sasabihin mo. Halimbawa, 


“baduy ng porma mo pre, parang bisaya lang” o kaya “mukha kang magsasaka”. Tandaan, di 


ka lamang o nakahihigit sa mga bisaya at magsasaka. Ikaw kaya, magpost ka ng video 


tungkol sa mga unggoy, tapos may magcomment, “ambobobo naman nila, parang ikaw”.


30. Wag kang magatubiling bumati sa mga post tungkol sa panganganak ng isang ina, 


pagpapakasal ng magsing irog o pagkatangap sa trabaho. Sa magulong mundo, hindi ba’t 


masarap ishare ang mga positibong pangyayari.




Baka malamang e nakataas na kilay niyo sa akin dahil dito, pero nasa DEMOCRATIC COUNTRY 


naman tayo diba? At, sabi nga ng karamihan meron tayong "FREEDOM OF SPEECH" :) 


Sinubukan ko lang naman, Practice ika-nga nila :) :D


Code of ethics. Wala? Oo, Walang basagan ng trip. Inaamin ko na may iilan diyan na 


ginagawa ko. Kaya ko nga sinulat diba? Eh Ikaw? Aminado ka ba?



Pero hindi ba mas maganda kung ginagamit natin ito sa matinong paraan?


-rquiacosan13♔
(c) ASJ

A Message of Thanks for Teachers ♡

A Message of Thanks To All the Great Teachers In This World Thank you for being such wonderful teachers, exemplary role models, and caring people. Thank you for knowing your subjects and sharing your knowledge. Thank you for not being afraid to treat students like real people. Thank you for showing acceptance, approval, and appreciation. These are all gifts that are so important to a student's development and that your students will always remember, just as they will also Remember you. Words of encouragement, a little respect, simple gestures of kindness from a teacher promote the perfect climate for students to study, learn and grow. Your attitude translates into a spirit of friendliness and good will towards others in an atmosphere of creative freedom, joy and ease, and you foster this feeling in your classroom. I salute the good work you've done. I appreciate the people you are, and I think you for your positive influence. You have passed on invaluable instruction and wisdom and created pleasurable moments associated with learning that will Always be sweet memories. Thank you for answering the call to be teachers. Thank you for the enduring impression you've made In the lives you have touched. Every community needs people like you. Your contributions are immeasurable. Your lessons are permanent. You improve our world. You are so important. HAPPY WORLD'S TEACHERS DAY! ☺ -rquiacosan13♔